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2. Working with family. When you work with family, money is involved. Sometimes it is hard for family to understand that you are their boss, or that they do not deserve more income based on their work. Family often expects to be granted promotions, raises, and other favors simply because they are family, whether their actions merit it or not. In addition, when personal problems arise, it has a way of affecting working situations. If you work with your parent, and you get in a huge fight with them, and refuse to let them see their grandkids, what do you think will happen while you are at work? It is unwise to put your financial well-being in the hands of your family. Put them in your own hands, or run the risk of ruining family relationships over money.
3. Loving people with money, or treating those without money differently can also be a huge problem within families. In your extended family, you may see some people who are better off than others. This can lead to unfair treatment. Maybe some people get better treatment than others because of their financial position. It seems that rich tend to get higher esteem than poor, and while this may be expected in society, it is extremely frustrating to deal with in a family situation, and can lead to a lot of resentment and family problems.
When it comes to family and money, the best policy is to simply keep them separate. Do not discuss your finances, do not give loans, and do not work with family. It is great to be generous with family, and to give if you have it, but do not expect things in return, and always look for non-money ways to help.